Kit Contents


Foreword & Instructions


Diagnostics (Learn to recognize syndromes)

Book Chapters


Intimacy & Boundaries Articles


Q & A Forum (Review past advice given for various problems)

(Purchase the book at here)

Integrity Check - Print out this checklist to see where your relationship may have some fundamental fractures in its foundation. (Adobe PDF is required)


Print Out This List of Responsibilities That Protect and Promote A Happy Relationship (Adobe PDF required) You can then evaluate how disciplined you are. A failure in a specific responsibility may indicate where you are experiencing emotional dysregulation of that discipline.



Our private couples counseling retreats all occur on a 5 or 7 day nautical voyage.

In addition to his work at Cary Counseling Center, Dr. Kaye and his wife Helen offer a very specialized service. It's a private marriage counseling retreat where you and your partner can be intensively counseled on how to overcome marriage problems and improve your relationship while you sail to lovely destinations on the rivers and sounds of North Carolina.





Follow Bryce and Helen Kaye's running blog about their own love odyssey of 31 years.






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DISCLAIMER: The reference to "Marital First Aid" in this web site is only metaphorical and should not be interpreted literally as a professional or medical procedure. In no way should the reader construe that an actual doctor-patient relationship exists because of such metaphorical language. The syndromes cited in this website are not found or recognized in DSM-IV. Any true professional diagnostic assessment would require that you first meet with a counselor to provide much more detailed information about yourself, your history, your situation, and your symptoms. No guarantee is made regarding the outcome and consequences of suggested interventions. However, it is accurate to portray said interventions as having been historically helpful to other people who have been previous clients of Cary Counseling Center. If the reader desires for Cary Counseling Center to assume responsibility for their care in a doctor-patient relationship, then the reader should call for an appointment so that thorough diagnostic assessment and treatment planning can be performed and a professional relationship established.



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